Collaborative | Litigation | |
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Who Controls the Process | You and your spouse control the process and make final decisions | Judge controls the process and makes final decisions |
Degree of Adversity | You and your spouse pledge mutual respect and openness | Court process is based on an adversarial system |
Cost | Costs are manageable, usually less expensive than litigation; team model is financially efficient in use of experts | Costs are unpredictable and can escalate rapidly including frequency of post-judgement litigation |
Timetable | You and your spouse create the timetable | Judge sets the timetable; often delays given crowded court |
Use of Outside Experts | Jointly retained specialists provide information and guidance helping you and your spouse develop informed mutually beneficial solutions | Separate experts are hired to support the litigants' positions, often at great expense to each |
Involvement of Lawyers | Your lawyers work toward a mutually created settlement | Lawyers fight to win, but someone loses |
Privacy | The process, discussion and negotiation details are kept private | Dispute becomes a matter of public record & sometimes, media attention |
Facilitation of Communication | Team of collaborative practice specialists educate and assist you and your spouse on how to effectively communicate with each other | No process designed to facilitate communication |
Voluntary Vs Mandatory | Voluntary | Mandatory if no agreement |
Lines of Communication | You and your spouse communicate directly with the assistance of members of your team | You and your spouse negotiate through your lawyers |
Court Involvement | Outside court | Court-based |
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Dr. Sheila Furr is a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator who helps divorcing couples in a voluntary and consensual process known as mediation to facilitate the negotiation of a divorce or dispute. Some couples would rather address the emotional and parenting issues with a mental health professional rather than start their process with a lawyer. Financial issues have a clear emotional component and sometimes Dr Furr co-mediates with a collaboratively trained financial expert. Should there be a need for legal advice, a lawyer can be brought into the process. When the full team makes sense, Collaborative Mediation might be the answer.
As a Child Specialist, Dr. Furr serves as the voice of the child in the collaborative process, while keeping them out of parental conflict. The child specialist is a neutral member of the collaborative professional team providing support to the family and advocacy for the children. She helps the parents focus on the best interests of their children based on meeting them and assessing their needs. The purpose of a child specialist during the divorce process is to minimize the impact of the divorce on your children and to create an individualized parenting plan and timeshare schedule.
Serving as a Neutral Facilitator in the Collaborative Process, Dr. Sheila Furr guides you, your spouse/partner, and the Collaborative team through the Collaborative Divorce process. As the Neutral Facilitator, Dr. Furr will help divorcing spouses navigate through difficult and emotional discussions to ensure that the needs of the entire family are considered. As a psychologist and communication specialist, she will help guide discussion to keep communication productive and respectful. When there are minors involved, Dr. Furr will meet with the parents in the preparation of the parenting plan and timeshare schedule.
Accredited Collaborative Professionals are amongst the most experienced Collaborative Professionals in the State of Florida. To receive the distinction of an Accredited Collaborative Professional, Dr. Sheila Furr met all the standards of education, ethics and experience set forth by the Florida Academy of Collaborative Professionals.